![]() "We've been one of the most liberal, if not the most liberal, adult site on the web which makes us the perfect target," Baku wrote, especially in the increasingly hostile political climate. To protect the community, Fetlife decided to remove any content that the credit card companies could deem obscene. The bank had given the team vague reasons for the denial of service, including "illegal or immoral content" or "blood, needles, and vampirism." He apologized for the deletions, for leaving everyone in the dark, "and most importantly, I apologize for letting many of you down." According to the post, Fetlife had just lost its credit card processors. "I have a lot to apologize for," Baku wrote. It took a month after the fetishes disappeared before John Baku, Fetlife's CEO and founder, finally explained the changes in a site announcement that shook the community. Still, Sandra remained optimistic - she told HypnomasterD that she thought the group must have just been hidden, not completely gone. "I'm really a good person, so why would someone think this is a bad thing?" "People are thinking what I enjoy is harmful and taboo, very very dark," she told me. When the Erotic Hypnosis group suddenly disappeared (along with over seven years of archived stories and discussions and research), she began to question herself. The hypnotist could make her remember or forget, feel hot or cold, get goosebumps or feel someone's touch. She loved erotic hypnosis as a submissive - how HypnomasterD could get in her head to make her do things. Fetlife was where she met HypnomasterD, the founder of the Erotic Hypnosis group. "I wanted to support the kink community and look back on any videos and everything no restriction or whatever," she said. "I like that, I really do." Two years and a half ago, Sandra became a lifetime supporter of the site for $240. "You can be so much more honest with people who are in kink because everything is out there," she said. She used it to find local in-person events like munches and play parties. Sandra joined Fetlife nine years ago, shortly after she discovered her budding interest in kink. Some of us were scrambling to go to other places, and people were so fragmented and lost." "We felt we lost such a community of like-minded people. "It was like Fetlife was cut in half," Sandra said. The weeks after disappearances were a turbulent time. The erasure had come without warning or explanations, and Erotic Hypnosis wasn't the only victim: groups and fetishes involving needles, blood play, race play and consensual non-consent also went away. I do not judge what other’s do…but being a vanilla for 41 1/2 years of my life, all I could do was stare blankly at the computer and mumble….In March 2017, Sandra, a 48-year-old submissive living in Alberta, Canada awoke to discover that the Erotic Hypnosis group she'd been a member of for years had suddenly disappeared from, the largest online kink community in the world. I have wider eyes tonight, after seeing some of those groups, profiles, etc. I just wanted to find some people like me….guess that’s a hard thing to find? I am equal to him in bill paying, making a lot of house decisions when he isn’t home, but do count on him to guide me through a lot of things, and he is in control in our bedroom, discipline, and house rules. “Daddy” is my term of respect and endearment for him. ![]() I don’t have a diaper fetish….I don’t baby talk to daddy….I don’t play with toys all day….I don’t have a daddy who is 40 years older than I am….I don’t treat him like a sugar daddy. I thought I was just “cheese.”īut Fet Life groups want to know if I am “a little, baby, baby girl, tween, diapered, etc……so I tried looking up “daddy” and kind of had the same luck….my Dom isn’t like a lot of them. That’s how I felt after browsing Fet Life groups. So she starts rambling off “cheddar, colby, monterey jack, swwiss, provolone.” All he thought of was “cheese.” So he stood there, overwhelmed, surprised, blank. He asked for “cheese” and the clerk asked him what kind…. What I was looking for was friendships of other women like me, who I could ask questions of, read how others are doing things, to help educate myself, etc.Īfter signing up for Fet Life, I kind of feel like that scene in the movie “Mr.Mom” where he went to the grocery store to buy lunch meat and cheese. I had no confusion about my role, until I decided to start a profile on Fet Life. He is my protector, my lover, my head of the bedroom, my teacher, my leader, and legally my husband… So I am new to being a submissive wife, as I have already stated….
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